Susan Seidelman

She first came to notice with Smithereens (1982), the earliest American independent feature to be screened in competition at the Cannes Film Festival. She-Devil (1989) co-starred Meryl Streep in her first starring comedic film role, and Roseanne Barr in her first feature-film role. Seidelman also worked in television, directing first-season episodes of Sex and the City, including the pilot. She directed productions for Showtime, Comedy Central and PBS. Seidelman's memoir Desperately Seeking Something: A Memoir about Movies, Mothers and Material Girls was published in 2024.

Susan Seidelman studied at New York University, Drexel University and Abington Senior High School. The recorded working language is English. Places of work recorded in the authority are United States. Residence is recorded at New York City. Work by Susan Seidelman is recorded in the collections of Museum of Modern Art.

• Name — Susan Seidelman • Born — 11 December 1952 • Birthplace — Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, U.S. • Occupation — Director, producer, writer • Alma Mater — New York University • Notable Works — Smithereens, Desperately Seeking Susan, Making Mr. Right, Cookie, She-Devil, Gaudi Afternoon, Musical Chairs • Years Active — 1982present • Partner — Jonathan Brett

Seidelman was born on December 11, 1952 in Abington, Pennsylvania and raised in a suburb of Philadelphia, the oldest daughter of a hardware manufacturer and a teacher. She graduated from Abington Senior High School in 1969, and studied fashion and arts at Drexel University in Philadelphia. After taking a film appreciation class where she was inspired by the French New Wave, particularly the films of Jean-Luc Godard and François Truffaut, as well as Ingmar Bergman, she switched her focus to filmmaking. Her first foray into movie-making at New York University resulted in a 1976 Student Academy Award Nomination for her satirical short film about a housewife's affair, And You Act Like One Too. Seidelman earned an MFA from NYU's Tisch School of the Arts and between 2006 and 2019 was an adjunct professor in the school's film department, overseeing students' thesis films.

Seidelman made her feature-film debut with Smithereens (1982), a bleak and darkly humorous look at New York City's downtown Bohemian scene of the 1980s. It was shot on 16mm for $40,000 on location, at times "guerrilla style" on the streets and in the subways of New York. Smithereens captured the look of the post-punk music scene and was the first American independent film to be selected for competition at the Cannes Film Festival. With recognition from Cannes, Seidelman became a member of the first wave of 80s-era independent filmmakers in the American cinema.

Seidelman's second theatrical film Desperately Seeking Susan (1985), featuring then-rising star Madonna, was a major box-office and critical success, launching the careers of co-stars Rosanna Arquette and Aidan Quinn and introducing a new generation of actors and performers such as John Turturro, Laurie Metcalf, Robert Joy, Mark Blum, Giancarlo Esposito, and comedian Steven Wright. Seidelman encouraged her producers to cast Madonna, who was a neighbor of hers with no previous film acting experience, believing she would lend downtown authenticity and charisma to the role. Seidelman's subsequent movies of the 1980s were Making Mr. Right (1987), a romantic sci-fi comedy starring Ann Magnuson and John Malkovich, who played dual roles as both a socially awkward scientist and his lovesick android creation; Cookie (1989), a father-daughter mafia comedy starring Peter Falk, Dianne Wiest, and Emily Lloyd, written by Nora Ephron and Alice Arlen; and She-Devil (also 1989), the film version of Fay Weldon's bestselling novel, with Meryl Streep in her first comedic movie role and Roseanne Barr in her first feature-film role. In 1994, Seidelman and screenwriter Jonathan Brett received an Academy Award nomination for best short film (live action) they co-wrote and co-produced called The Dutch Master. The film was part of the series "Erotic Tales" produced by Regina Ziegler and was screened at both the Cannes Film Festival and Telluride Film Festival. In the same year Seidelman was a member of the jury at the 44th Berlin International Film Festival.

Seidelman returned to feature films with Gaudi Afternoon (2001), a gender-bending detective story set in Barcelona, starring Judy Davis, Marcia Gay Harden, Juliette Lewis and Lili Taylor. The screenplay by James Myhre was based on the book Gaudi Afternoon: A Cassandra Reilly Mystery by Barbara Wilson. Her film Boynton Beach Club (2005) was based on an original idea by her mother, Florence Seidelman, who while living in South Florida had gathered true stories of senior citizens who were suddenly back in the "dating game" after the loss of a spouse. It's one of the first movies to deal with sexuality and the aging Baby Boomer generation and had a theatrical run and acclaim at U.S. film festivals. The ensemble cast featured studio veterans Brenda Vaccaro, Dyan Cannon, Sally Kellerman, Joseph Bologna, Michael Nouri and Len Cariou. Seidelman's next film Musical Chairs (2011) is set in the South Bronx and Manhattan and revolves around a couple taking part in a wheelchair ballroom dancing competition after the woman becomes disabled. The film featured an ensemble of able-bodied and disabled cast members that included Laverne Cox in her first film role. Musical Chairs premiered at the Miami International Film Festival and went on to receive a GLAAD nomination for Best Film in a Limited Release. Seidelman's next film The Hot Flashes (2013) is about middle-aged women living in small-town Texas, all former 1980s basketball champs, reuniting to challenge the current girls' high school team to raise funds for a breast-cancer treatment center. It starred Brooke Shields, Daryl Hannah, Wanda Sykes, Virginia Madsen, Camryn Manheim, and Eric Roberts. Seidelman's short film "Cut in Half" (2017) focuses on two Muslim sisters who must come to terms with the eldest sister's leukemia diagnosis, her feelings about continuing chemotherapy, and the decision between life and death. It starred Déa Julien, and Ajna Jai. In 2023, Desperately Seeking Susan was added to the National Film Registry as part of a selection of films preserved by the Library of Congress for their historic, cultural or aesthetic contribution to American Cinema. In March 2024, La Cinemateque francaise in Paris held a retrospective of her films. That same year, Seidelman (along with Rosanna Arquette, received a Golden Thumb Award from Ebertfest. In 2025, Seidelman received the Indie Star Award from the American Film Festival (Wroclaw, Poland) for her significant contribution to Independent Cinema. Seidelman's memoir “Desperately Seeking Something” was released by St. Martin's Press in June, 2024 to generally positive reviews. The New York Times Book Review stated: “Her films defined a gritty, magical New York moment....Susan Seidelman's life is as full of twists, charm and happy endings as one of her iconic movies." The LA Times said, “Director Susan Seidelman takes stock of her groundbreaking career,” in an interview where she noted her "capacity for... 'aesthetic playfulness,' of finding [her] way toward something great. Publishers Weekly called the memoir “an enthralling look at a trailblazing filmmaker's perseverance and vision.”

In the 1990s and 2000s Seidelman garnered success as a television director, helming the pilot of Sex and the City, which involved some casting and developing the look and feel of the show. Seidelman thought the pilot script by Darren Star was bold, presenting then-taboo subject matter with humor, saying, "It was the first time that a TV show featured women talking about things they really talk about in private." She directed subsequent episodes during the show's first season. Seidelman received two Emmy nominations for the Showtime film A Cooler Climate, written by Pulitzer Prize-winner Marsha Norman, and starring Sally Field and Judy Davis. She also directed episodes of Comedy Central's cult comedy Stella and PBS's reboot of The Electric Company.

Altering the formulas of traditional film genres, Seidelman explores issues of identity for women of varying ages and backgrounds.

Appearances and what they reveal and conceal is a recurring theme in Seidelman's films, along with how women rebel against or create a place for themselves within society's expectations. Roberta in Desperately Seeking Susan takes on Susan's mysterious and troublesome identity when she wears her clothes. Devoid of her usual suburban-housewife wardrobe and suffering from amnesia, Roberta embarks on an urban adventure by "trying on" the free-spirited persona of Susan. Susan, in search of Roberta, lives in her large house for 24 hours, trashing it, but appreciating the luxury and comfort therein. She-Devil is a revenge comedy/satire that pits homely abandoned wife Ruth against beautiful wealthy romance-novelist Mary. By taking revenge on her husband, Ruth finds power utilizing her skills as a formerly unpaid homemaker, and obtains success by employing other women in the same predicament. Mary, in contrast, saddled with Ruth's children, discovers how difficult maintaining a household can be – at odds with the tropes of romance-fiction. Aspects of sexual identity and parenthood are explored in Gaudi Afternoon, set in Barcelona, Spain, where translator Cassandra, middle-aged, purposefully single, with no desire for children, finds herself enmeshed in a family squabble among a pansexual group of San Francisco transplants.

Seidelman's early studies in fashion have influenced her art direction, costumes and overall style as visual story elements in her films. Fashion and reflective colors make downtown New York of the 80s a stylized East Village wonderland for Roberta in Desperately Seeking Susan. In contrast, her suburban home is presented in cool pastels and hard edges—an atmosphere where social mores and false fronts are more rigidly enforced. Performing as a magician's assistant, where costume and artifice is a requirement, she hones her survival skills that lead to personal satisfaction on and off the stage. Smithereens explored the same colorful downtown scene, but with more grit and squalor, reflecting its low-budget independent production. Wren has more desire than creative skill, but like Giulietta Masina's character in Fellini's Nights of Cabiria, whom Seidelman notes as an inspiration, she's a survivor and her wish for recognition within the local punk-rock scene is presented without judgment. A magic club is also a feature of Gaudí Afternoon where asexual Cassandra, through her attraction to openly bisexual Hamilton—an amateur magician—acknowledges her own sexual awareness. Antoni Gaudí's eccentric, sensual architecture is the scenic backdrop to Cassandra's deeper involvement with an alternative family and their young daughter, which ultimately brings about change in her personal life. A diverse cast of dancers perform in Musical Chairs, where Armando and Mia's relationship develops within the world of competitive wheelchair ballroom dancing—a dance form popular in Europe and Asia, but mostly unknown in the U.S. The dance troupe, outsiders in the world of feature-film, include a transgender woman and an Iraqi veteran, highlighting dance as a form of self-expression available to everyone. Laverne Cox, who is transgender, has said that playing Chantelle, a disabled Black transgender woman, in a feature film was a career milestone.

Seidelman is married to screenwriter and producer Jonathan Brett. As of 2022, she lives in the "New Jersey countryside, to which she and her husband recently moved after several decades in downtown New York". Their son Oscar is a producer and video editor.

TV movies • The Barefoot Executive (1995) • A Cooler Climate (1999) • Power and Beauty (2002) • The Ranch (2004) TV series • Year — Title — Episode(s) • 1996 — Early Edition — "Thief Swipes Mayor's Dog" • 1998 — Sex and the City — "Sex and the City" (pilot) • "The Power of Female Sex" • "The Baby Shower" • 1999 — Now and Again — "One for the Money" • 2005 — Stella — "Office Party" • "Paper Route" • 2009–10 — The Electric Company — "The Flube Whisperer" • "Mighty Bright Fight" • "Jules Quest" • "Revolutionary Doughnuts" Music videos • Year — Title — Artist • 1984 — "I Wanna Know" — The Restless • 1985 — "Into the Groove" — Madonna

Seidelman spins established film genres, updating them by focusing on female protagonists, society's outsiders and gender roles. In her autobiography, Seidelman mentions that she likes "looking at traditional movie genres from a different angle," having directed, "...a New Wave screwball comedy, an AI rom-com, a father-daughter mafia movie, a feminist revenge comedy, a gender-bending detective story, and a date movie about single seniors." In Smithereens, set in the early 1980s, the trope of the plucky heroine trying to make it in the music world is upended by teenaged Wren's goal to become famous despite having no applicable creative talents. Plastering fliers of her face around the city, Wren's a precursor of the "famous for being famous" personalities of the Internet age. Seidelman says that Wren's story "is about something broader: the fragmented nature of life in the 80's. It could have taken place in other settings." Desperately Seeking Susan is a screwball comedy inspired by Jacques Rivette's Celine and Julie Go Boating, that explores identity-swapping among its two protagonists, Roberta and Susan. Instead of a conventional male/female role-swap, bored suburbanite Roberta trades personas with adventuresome Susan, and by doing so, recognizes her inner desires, both romantic and artistic. In Cookie, a mafia story, the primary focus is on the relationships between single mother, Lenore, her teenage daughter Cookie, and absentee crime-boss father, Dino, along with his wife, Bunny, reunited when he's released from prison. In Dino's absence, the women have learned to survive on their own and profane, independent Cookie supplies the solution to Dino's desire to go straight—resulting in a feminist family comic-drama within a gangster story. Based on true stories set in an insular Florida community, Boynton Beach Clubs romantic leads are all past retirement age. The members of a bereavement group experience classic romantic-comedy scenarios—awkward first dates, sexual insecurity, miscommunication and misunderstandings—after losing longtime partners. Seidelman had not seen older baby boomers dealing with loss, grief and romance in films and set out to create modern seniors without stereotyping. Further genre mixing is evident in Making Mr Right, which combines sci-fi with romance among an android, his maker, and a successful career woman whose job is to teach the android about emotions. Gaudi Afternoon blends the detective mystery with family drama. The Hot Flashes is an against-all-odds sports film with middle-aged underdogs going up against youthful champions.

Short film • Year — Title — Director — Writer — Producer — Editor — Notes • 1976 — And You Act Like One Too • 1979 — Yours Truly, Andrea G. Stern • 1996 — The Dutch Master — Segment of Tales of Erotica • 2017 — Cut in Half Feature film • Year — Title — Director — Producer — Writer • 1982 — Smithereens — Story • 1985 — Desperately Seeking Susan • 1987 — Making Mr. Right — Executive • 1989 — Cookie — Executive • 1989 — She-Devil • 2001 — Gaudi Afternoon • 2005 — Boynton Beach Club • 2011 — Musical Chairs — Executive • 2013 — The Hot Flashes Documentary film • Year — Title — Director — Producer • 1992 — Confessions of a Suburban Girl