Ray Stricklyn

• Birth Name — Lewis Raymond Stricklyn • Born — 8 October 1928 • Birthplace — Houston, Texas, U.S. • Died — 14 May 2002 • Place of death — Los Angeles, California • Occupation — Film, stage, television actor • Years Active — 1952–1998 • Partner — David Galligan

Stricklyn was born in Houston, Texas; his father was a sign painter. At the age of 16 Ray Stricklyn auditioned for a part in the play Ah, Wilderness and was given the lead role. He went on to perform several roles for the Houston Little Theater. In 1950 he won a scholarship to a New York drama school.

Stricklyn gained early acting experience in summer stock at the Litchfield (Connecticut) Summer Theatre. He made his Broadway début in A Climate of Eden by Moss Hart.

Stricklyn played the role of adolescent 'Jesse' opposite Ida Lupino in 'That Woman' on Singer's Four Star Playhouse (1956). Stricklyn had the role of Howard Alston Hawkins in Days of Our Lives (1991–1992). He made two guest appearances on the CBS courtroom drama series Perry Mason. In 1960 he played defendant Gerald Norton in "The Case of the Bashful Burro," and in 1963 he played Reed Brent in "The Case of the Festive Felon." He portrayed Stanley in a 1961 episode of The Tom Ewell Show. In 1966 he appeared on the World War II drama Combat!, as Private Earl Konieg in the episode "Headcount". He also appeared in episodes of popular shows like Cheers, Seinfeld, The Nanny, Wiseguy, and many more.

Stricklyn took work in a fudge factory and then worked as a typist for a mailing company. In 1973 he joined the public relations firm John Springer Associates in Los Angeles and became one of the most influential publicists in Hollywood, working with some of the biggest names in entertainment, including Henry Fonda, Shelley Winters, Janet Leigh, Elizabeth Taylor, and Bette Davis. He also handled the US debut of the Rubik's Cube. He eventually became the head of the company's West Coast office. In 1983 Stricklyn and Charlotte Chandler wrote a one-hour one-man show, Confessions of a Nightingale, about Tennessee Williams. Stricklyn portrayed Williams in the production, which was adapted from Chandler's interviews with Williams. Critic John Simon wrote in New York magazine: "Ray Stricklyn... does a fine job as Williams. The accent may waver a bit, but all those small mannerisms, tics, idiosyncratic intonations, hesitancies, shifts of mood are fraught with authenticity." Four weekend performances at the Beverly Hills Playhouse were planned but it was received so enthusiastically that it ran for over a year. Eva Marie Saint and her husband Jeffrey Hayden took out a full-page advertisement in Daily Variety urging everyone to see the show. He was twice named Best Actor of the Year by the LA Drama Critics Circle and LA Weekly. The show was then taken to Broadway and toured the US for another year. It was then performed at the Edinburgh Festival.

In 1965 Stricklyn was introduced to a furniture refurbisher named David Galligan and they became lifetime companions. Galligan later became a noted stage director.

After falling ill with emphysema in 1997, he began writing his coming out autobiography. Published in 1999, Angels & Demons: One Actor's Hollywood Journey, published in Los Angeles by Belle Publishing, 297 pages, (hardback), is a candid and witty account of a man who, Stricklyn wrote, "might qualify as one who has had his 15 minutes in the limelight; perhaps even 20." On May 14, 2002, Stricklyn died of emphysema in Los Angeles. He is survived by his sister, Mary Ann, and his longtime companion, Los Angeles stage director David Galligan.

Film • Year — Title — Role — Notes • 1952 — The Marrying Kind — Minor Role — Uncredited • 1952 — The Thief — Minor Role — Uncredited • 1956 — Crime in the Streets — Benny — Uncredited • 1956 — The Catered Affair — Eddie Hurley • 1956 — The Proud and Profane — Casualty — Uncredited • 1956 — Somebody Up There Likes Me — Bryson — Uncredited • 1956 — The Last Wagon — Clint • 1956 — The Rack — Ryson — Uncredited • 1958 — The Return of Dracula — Tim Hansen • 1958 — Ten North Frederick — Joby Chapin • 1959 — The Remarkable Mr. Pennypacker — Horace Pennypacker III • 1959 — The Big Fisherman — Deran • 1960 — The Lost World — David Holmes • 1960 — Young Jesse James — Jesse James • 1960 — The Plunderers — Jeb Lucas Tyler • 1965 — Arizona Raiders — Danny Bonner • 1967 — Track of Thunder — Gary Regal • 1975 — Dogpound Shuffle — Mr. Lester Jr. • 1979 — La ilegal — Ins officer Television • Year — Title — Role — Notes • 1956 — Singer Four Star Playhouse — Jesse • 1988 — Square One TV — D. John Mutard — Mathnet segment, "The Map with the Gap" • 1996 — Seinfeld — Clarence — Season 8, Episode 10: "The Andrea Doria" • 1991 — Cheers — Ed — Season 9, Episode 16: "Wedding Bell Blues"

Ray Stricklyn: Actor whose boyish looks became a hindrance Obituary by Tom Vallance in The Independent, 29th. May 2002, page 18. "Stricklyn stated that two factors had contributed to his lack of progress. First, his homosexuality (though he had well-publicised relationships with Joan Collins and Bette Davis) and secondly, his persistently youthful appearance."

• I was 27 and still looked 16, but there was a whole new crop of boys coming up who really were that age. I'd thought my career was going straight up. So like a lot of foolish young actors, I started living beyond my means. I bought expensive cars, got into debt. Once you think you're going to be a star, then you're not—it's a rude awakening.