Sophy Gray
Sophy Gray or Sophia Gray (5 January 1814 – 27 April 1871), was a diocesan administrator, artist, architect, horsewoman and the wife of Cape Town bishop Robert Gray. Sophy Gray was born at Easington in Yorkshire, the 5th daughter of county squire Richard Wharton Myddleton of Durham and Yorkshire, she died in Bishopscourt, Cape Town on 27 April 1871 and was buried in the graveyard of St Saviour's in Claremont. Wrote "the constant companion of (Robert Gray's) travels, the untiring amanuensis and accountant, the skilful designer of churches, the brightness and stay of his home life at Bishopscourt."
Also recorded as Sophia Gray
Sophy Gray

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- Name
- Sophy Gray
- Born
- 5 January 1814
- Birthplace
- Easington, North Yorkshire, England
- Died
- 27 April 1871
- Place of death
- Cape Town
- Known for
- Architecture
- Nationality
- South Africa
- Occupation
- architect
- Languages
- English
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Sophy Gray or Sophia Gray (5 January 1814 – 27 April 1871), was a diocesan administrator, artist, architect, horsewoman and the wife of Cape Town bishop Robert Gray. Sophy Gray was born at Easington in Yorkshire, the 5th daughter of county squire Richard Wharton Myddleton of Durham and Yorkshire, she died in Bishopscourt, Cape Town on 27 April 1871 and was buried in the graveyard of St Saviour's in Claremont. Wrote "the constant companion of (Robert Gray's) travels, the untiring amanuensis and accountant, the skilful designer of churches, the brightness and stay of his home life at Bishopscourt."
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Key facts
• Name — Sophy Gray • Born — 5 January 1814 • Birthplace — Easington, North Yorkshire, England • Died — 27 April 1871 • Place of death — Cape Town • Known for — Architecture • Illustration — St Mark's Anglican Cathedral in George, which Gray designed
England
England
Sophy and her two sisters were raised in an affluent family, owning estates in North Riding and Durham. They were well-read and proficient riders from an early age, qualities that helped foster their friendship with the young Robert Gray. Sophy married Robert Gray in 1836 after a six-month engagement, when he was rector of Whitworth, Durham. Their honeymoon gave young Sophy a taste of things to come when she and Robert set out on a lengthy horseback trip, visiting the family holdings in two counties. For nine years their lives at Old Park and Whitworth, and the urban parish of Stockton remained fairly untroubled, but all this changed dramatically when Robert was placed on a shortlist for one of three new colonial bishoprics. He was chosen for the Cape of Good Hope.
South Africa
South Africa
In 1847 Sophy and Robert travelled to Cape Town where he was to establish a new colonial diocese, increase the number of clergy and establish new churches and schools. There were only ten Anglican churches in South Africa at that time. With his death 25 years later, this number had risen to 63. Having grown accustomed to the high standard of living enjoyed by bishops, including an episcopal palace, the Grays emigrated to the Cape with a retinue of servants, furniture and even an episcopal carriage. The couple settled on the farm Boschheuvel, originally named Wijnberg and later renamed Bishopscourt, the original owner having been Jan van Riebeek, first Dutch Governor of the Cape. The farm lay on the slopes of Table Mountain, well-watered and with dense woodland. Here Sophy, using the old slave quarters, started a school for her five children and those of the community. Despite disliking social engagements, she kept open house to a constant stream of church officials and dignitaries, as well as managing Robert's diocese that included the Cape, Orange Free State, Natal and the islands of Tristan da Cunha and St. Helena. Sophy Gray had brought along architectural plans of churches that could be adapted to the design of churches and schools for the new Anglican parishes that were to be established throughout South Africa. Both Sophy and her husband favoured the neo-Gothic style of church architecture which was fashionable in Britain at that time and advocated by the ecclesiologists, and disliked the Romanesque style. Even so, Sophy and Robert Gray felt that church design should not stick slavishly to the Early English Period, but should show some diversity. She not only filled the role of architect, but kept records of the synods, their meetings and official ceremonies. She also kept records of correspondence and church chronicles. Being a competent horsewoman, she joined her husband on all but two of his extended trips. Her artistic skills were shown by the numerous water-colours and sketches she did, frequently used to illustrate her husband's journals. In all, the bishop would hardly have managed without her able assistance and knowledge. As if in recognition of her contribution, there is a stained glass window in St George's Cathedral, depicting her wearing a green riding habit and bonnet, though usually she wore a felt hat and plain riding dress, beneath which were close-fitting riding breeches of Chamois leather. Capetonian Desmond Martin's doctoral thesis dealt with the churches established by the Grays. Of more than 50 churches built in South Africa during Robert Gray's bishopric, at least 40 were designed by Sophy. In 2005 Martin published a book titled "The Bishop's Churches" and illustrated with his water-colours and line drawings of her 40 churches, including St Paul's, Rondebosch, St Saviour's, Claremont, St Peter's, Plettenberg Bay, St James, Graaff-Reinet and St Jude's, Oudtshoorn.
Churches designed by Sophy Gray
Churches designed by Sophy Gray
• Church — Town — Year — Location — Image • St Paul's Church — Eerste River, Western Cape — 1848 • St James' Church — Graaff-Reinet — 1848 • St Paul's Church — Rondebosch, Cape Town — 1849 — • St George's Church — Knysna — 1849 — • School Chapel — Beaufort West — 1849 — • Christ Church — Colesberg — 1849 • St Mark's Church — George — 1849 — • Holy Trinity Church — Caledon — 1850 — • St Saviour's Church — Claremont, Cape Town — 1850 • Holy Trinity Church — Belvidere, Knysna — 1851 — • St Peter's Church — Pietermaritzburg — 1851 — • Christ Church — Swellendam — 1852 • Christ Church — Beaufort West — 1852 — • St James, The Great, Anglican Church — Worcester — 1852 — • St John the Baptist Church — Louvain Farm, Schoonberg near Herold — 1853 • All Saints Church — Somerset East — 1854 — • St Paul's Church — North End, Port Elizabeth — 1854 • St Matthew's Church — Riversdale, Western Cape — 1854 — • School Chapel — Mossel Bay — 1855 • St Andrew's Chapel — Newlands, Cape Town — 1856 — • Armstrong Memorial Chapel — St. Andrew's College, Grahamstown — 1856 • St Peter's Church — Cradock — 1857 — • Church of St Mary the Virgin — Woodstock, Cape Town — 1859 — • All Saints Church — Bredasdorp — 1859 • St Andrew's Chapel — Ceres — 1860 • St Jude's Church — Oudtshoorn — 1860 — • Constantia Chapel — near Cape Town — 1860 • All Saints Chapel — Durbanville — 1860 • St Mary's Church — Robertson — 1861 • St Thomas' Mission Station — Rondebosch, Cape Town — 1864 • St John's Church — Clanwilliam — 1864 • St Mark's Chapel — District Six, Cape Town — 1865 • St Patrick's Church — Umzinto, KwaZulu-Natal — 1868 • St Augustine's Chapel — Fraserburg — 1869 • St Luke's Mission Church — Swellendam — 1869 — • St John's Church — Victoria West — 1869 — • All Saints Church — Uniondale — 1869 — • St Mildred's Chapel — Montagu — 1870 • St Peter's Church — Plettenberg Bay — 1879 • St Matthew's Church — Willowmore — 1880
Work and production
Work and production
Works recorded as notable number 2: All Saints Church, Uniondale and St Mark's Cathedral, George, Western Cape.
Life and career
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Life and career
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1814
Sophy Gray born at Easington.
1871
Sophy Gray died at Bishopscourt.
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