Ross Jeffries
Paul Jeffrey Ross (born, known by the pseudonym Ross Jeffries, is an American author and pickup artist. Neil Strauss, in his 2005 book The Game, describes Jeffries as the "godfather" of the modern pick-up artist community.
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- Ross Jeffries
- Birth Name
- Paul Jeffrey Ross
- Occupation
- Writer, author, life coach, seduction guru
- Born
- 1958 · United States.
- Nationality
- United States
- Education
- Leuzinger High School
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Paul Jeffrey Ross (born, known by the pseudonym Ross Jeffries, is an American author and pickup artist. Neil Strauss, in his 2005 book The Game, describes Jeffries as the "godfather" of the modern pick-up artist community.
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• Name — Ross Jeffries • Birth Name — Paul Jeffrey Ross • Occupation — Writer, author, life coach, seduction guru
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In 1988, Jeffries started to study seduction. He taught workshops and promoted a collection of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP)-based techniques called "speed seduction". His teachings claim to show men how to create the desired emotional state in a woman by leading her imagination for the purpose of seduction, rather than to focus on a specific behavior or action of hers, as the desired outcome. In 1992, he was on a segment of NBC's Faith Daniels Show, appearing with men's rights activist Mel Feit and feminist and ethicist Bruce Weinstein. Jeffries has also been featured on The Dr. Phil Show, The Montel Williams Show, The Jane Whitney Show and The Daily Show, and is a self-described "speed seduction expert." In 2000, Jeffries was featured on Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends. In 2000, Jeffries sued John White (also known as Don Steele) alleging invasion of privacy, business interference, slander and libel. In his book The Game, published in 2005, author Neil Strauss describes his experience shadowing Jeffries during Strauss' investigation of the seduction community. He writes that Jeffries acted as the mentor to Mystery and himself. Jeffries is Jewish. Tom Cruise's character, Frank T.J. Mackey, in the film Magnolia was inspired by Jeffries according to the film's writer-director Paul Thomas Anderson.
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Ross Jeffries is recorded as television presenter, motivational speaker, writer and pickup artist.
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- 1.Abcarian, Robin. Return of the Brute: Relationships: Forget sensitive. Forget nice. What women really want is a big, strong barbarian, according to a new crop of self-help books. The Los Angeles Times. OCE1. 1991-07-19.
- 2.Strauss, Neil. The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists. ReganBooks. 240. 2005. 9780060554736.
- 3.Strauss, Neil. HE AIMS! HE SHOOTS! YES!!. The New York Times. 2004-01-25. 0362-4331.
- 4.Jeffries, Ross. Secrets of Speed Seduction Mastery. Speed Seduction. 2010.
- 5.Hermansson, Patrik. The International Alt-Right: Fascism for the 21st Century?. Routledge. 12. 31 January 2020. 978-0-429-62709-5.
- 6.Dating game turns ugly. The Guardian. 2000-01-16.
- 7.Barnes, Cecily. The Rap Trap. Metroactive. August 13, 1998.
- 8.Almond, Steve. Confessions of a playboy. Los Angeles Times. October 23, 2005.
- 9.Sutcliffe, Thomas. So who are you calling weird?. The Independent. September 21, 2000.
- 10.Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends – Self Fulfillment. ABC.net.au. March 26, 2012.
- 11.Talk Softly, Keep Eye Contact, Save Country. Stanstead Journal. February 25, 1998.
- 12.Arfa, Orit. How to Pick Up Tough Israeli Chicks. The Jewish Journal. 2010-11-01.
- 13.Konow, David. PTA Meeting: An Interview with Paul Thomas Anderson Tom Cruise in an interview with Neil Strauss denies that his character in Magnolia is based on Ross Jeffries. Creative Screenwriting. 46–53. January–February 2000.
- 14.Thompson, Luke Y. The Not-So-Magnificent Anderson. Miami New Times.
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