Joseph Epstein

• Name — Joseph Epstein • Pen Name — Aristides • Born — 9 January 1937 • Birthplace — Chicago, Illinois, U.S. • Occupation — Writer, editor, lecturer • Language — English • Education — * University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign • University of Chicago (BA) • Spouse — Barbara Maher • Children — 2 • Awards — National Humanities Medal

Epstein was born to Maurice and Belle Epstein in Chicago, Illinois on January 9, 1937. He graduated from Senn High School and attended the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign. He served in the U.S. Army for two years as an enlisted soldier from 1958 to 1960, and received a bachelor of arts in absentia from the University of Chicago in 1959.

Epstein's essay "Who Killed Poetry?", published in Commentary in 1988, generated discussion in the literary community for decades after its publication. In 2024, Epstein published an autobiography titled Never Say You've Had a Lucky Life: Especially If You've Had a Lucky Life.

In September 1970, Harper's Magazine published an article by Epstein called "Homo/Hetero: The Struggle for Sexual Identity" that used the word "nigger" to describe being gay and was criticized for its perceived homophobia. Epstein wrote that he considered homosexuality "a curse, in a literal sense" and that his sons could do nothing to make him sadder than "if any of them were to become homosexual." Although, Epstein later confirmed that this was not because of any distaste for the homosexual community, but rather because for the time, gay people were discouraged and discriminated, and had to “live in the shadows.” Gay activists characterized the essay as portraying every gay man the author met, or imagined meeting, as predatory, sex-obsessed, and a threat to civilization. In the essay, he says that, if possible, "I would wish homosexuality off the face of the earth," a statement that was interpreted by gay writer and editor Merle Miller as a call to genocide. A sit-in took place at Harper's by members of the Gay Activists Alliance. In 2015, Epstein wrote an article for The Weekly Standard in which he mentioned the Harper's essay and its coverage in Wikipedia. He did not retract his original essay, but rued that his concessive support for homosexuality "cuts neither ice nor slack. My only hope now is that, on my gravestone, the words Noted Homophobe aren’t carved."

In a December 2020 Wall Street Journal opinion piece, he suggested that Jill Biden stop using the academic title "Dr.," which she earned as a Doctor of Education, saying that it "feels fraudulent, not to say a touch comic." The piece, which opens by addressing her as "Madame First Lady—Mrs. Biden—Jill—kiddo," was criticized on Twitter by several public figures. He also critiqued the title of Biden's dissertation, Student Retention at the Community College Level: Meeting Students' Needs, calling it "unpromising." Jill Biden later responded during an interview on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, indicating that she was surprised at the tone of the article and at Epstein's use of the word "kiddo" to address her, stating that she was proud of her doctorate, for which she had worked hard. Northwestern University and its English department, where Epstein worked as a visiting adjunct lecturer from 1974 till 2002, each released a statement condemning his opinion. The university wrote, "Northwestern is firmly committed to equity, diversity and inclusion, and strongly disagrees with Mr. Epstein's misogynistic views," and noted that it was nearly 20 years since his employment there. The university also removed Epstein's page from its website, where he had been listed as an emeritus lecturer of English.

• Divorced In America: Marriage In an Age of Possibility (1975) • Familiar Territory: Observations on American Life (1979) • Life Sentences: Literary Essays (1980) • Ambition: The Secret Passion (1981) • The Middle of My Tether: Familiar Essays (1983) • Plausible Prejudices: Essays on American Writing (1985) • Once More Around The Block: Familiar Essays (1987) • Partial Payments: Essays on Writers & Their Lives (1989) • The Goldin Boys: Stories (1991) • A Line Out for a Walk: Familiar Essays (1991) • Pertinent Players: Essays on The Literary Life (1993) • With My Trousers Rolled: Familiar Essays (1995) • Anglophilia, American Style (1997) • Narcissus Leaves the Pool (1999) • Snobbery: The American Version (2002) • Envy (2003) • Fabulous Small Jews (2003) • Alexis De Tocqueville: Democracy's Guide (2006) • Friendship: An Expose (2006) • In A Cardboard Belt: Essays Personal, Literary and Savage (2007) • Fred Astaire (2008) • The Love Song of A. Jerome Minkoff & Other Stories (2010) • Gossip: The Untrivial Pursuit (2011) • Essays In Biography (2012) • Distant Intimacy: A Friendship in the Age of Internet (2013) (co-authored with Frederic Raphael) • A Literary Education & Other Essays (2014) • Masters of the Games: Essays & Stories on Sport (2014) • Where Were We: The Conversation Continues (2015) (co-authored with Frederic Raphael) • Frozen In Time: Twenty Stories (2016) • Wind Sprints: Shorter Essays (2016) • Victimhood: The New Virtue (2017) • Charm: The Elusive Enchantment (2018) • The Ideal of Culture: Essays (2018) • Gallimaufry: A Collection of Essays, Reviews, Bits (2020) • The Novel, Who Needs It? (2023) • Familiarity Breeds Content: New and Selected Essays (2024) • Never Say You've Had a Lucky Life: Especially If You've Had a Lucky Life (2024)