Catherine Grey, Lady Manners

• Name — Catherine Rebecca Gray • Title — Lady Huntingtower • Birthplace — Lehena, County Cork, Ireland • Born — 1766 • Died — 21 March 1852 • Issue — Hon. Louisa Tollemache Lady Catherine Camilla Tollemache Lady Emily Frances Tollemache Lionel Tollemache, 8th Earl of Dysart Felix Tollemache Hon. Arthur Caesar Tollemache Hon. Caroline Tollemache Lady Catherine Octavia Tollemache Hugh Tollemache Frederick Tollemache Algernon Tollemache Lady Laura Maria Tollemache • Father — Francis Gray • Mother — Elizabeth Ruddock Catherine Rebecca Gray (or Grey), Lady Manners, later Lady Huntingtower (1766 – 21 March 1852) was an Anglo-Irish aristocrat and poet.

Catherine Gray was born in Lehena, County Cork, the daughter of Francis Gray and his wife, Elizabeth Ruddock, and was brought up in Cork, Ireland. In 1790 she married the Tory politician William Manners. The pair had six sons and six daughters. In 1794 she sat for Thomas Lawrence's Portrait of Lady Manners which was prominently displayed at the Royal Academy Exhibition of 1794. In 1821, the family surname was changed from Manners to Tollemache (also spelt Talmash). William died in 1833 and in 1840 their son Lionel inherited the Earldom of Dysart from his grandmother. All his siblings were raised to the precedence of the children of an earl, to reflect their father's position had he survived. The first collection of poems under Lady Manners' own name was published in 1790, and their author was described as having "claims... to the praise of harmony of verse and purity of sentiment... not exceeded by those of any among her fair contemporaries". Her poetry was popular during the early nineteenth century.

• Poems by Lady Manners, 1793 • Review of Poetry, Ancient and Modern, A Poem, by Lady M****, 1799